When you hire Brain Fit Academy to work with your child, you get a team of people, not just one coach. We like to think of ourselves as a Brain Fit Family, and we like to stick to together like family.

I didn't listen to him. I didn't listen to his words that is. 

It doesn’t really matter who you are, young or old, kid, adult, or teen. We all want (and deserve) and sense of safety. And I’m not just talking about safety as in feeling safe from physical dangers. I’m also talking about the sense of safety that comes from feeling emotionally safe. 

Sometimes, you have to go through the dark place to move beyond it. This is something that I think all of us learn at some point, don't we? Facing your fears, or emotions on a deeper level.

I emailed my son's Brain Fit Coach in a bit of a panic. We had recently started with weekly sessions and all of a sudden he started having an exaggerated response to noise that he never had before. His teachers were telling me that he was refusing to go into the cafeteria and was covering his ears. The teachers (graciously) allowed him to each his lunch just outside the cafeteria and even allowed him to invite a friend to eat with him.

I've been a teacher for quite awhile. 20+ years actually. I've taught pre-schoolers, I've taught 2nd graders, I've taught 4th and 5th graders. I'm also a mom to two teenage children. And in all that time of being a teacher and a mom, I had never heard of the Asymmetrical Tonic Neck Reflex (ATNR) until about two years ago. Never.

I get it. I understand what it's like to have a child who struggles in school and in life. I get it.

Parents know their children best. They are the ones that kids spend the most time with. Parents know the ins and outs and the ups and downs of their children. Parents are usually the first ones to know if something is "off" with their child or if they are just having a bad day.

I did some Brain Gym® movement activities before I sat down to write this post today. I needed to. I was (what we call at Brain Fit) "out of the loop" and I wasn't able to access my thoughts in order to write. 

I want to help kids and families be happier. 

I'm going to say that again. I want to help kids and families be happier.

"Trust the Process" is one of the Guiding Principles for us at Brain Fit Academy. Sometimes it's easy to get caught up in the cognitive part of our job that it becomes difficult to remember that.  Even the best of us coaches have it happen sometimes.

My 12 year old client was balancing on my round yoga balancing board while simultaneously holding an infinity loop marble board and rolling marbles around it rhythmically. Have you ever tried something like that? It takes a tremendous amount of balance, coordination and focus to accomplish it, and there he was- doing it like it was easy as pie.

Have you ever believed in something so much that you just wanted to tell everyone you knew about it?

"When was the last time you noticed your ears?" 

He looked at me with one of those "deer in the headlights" looks. It was my first session with this 10 year old client and I was explaining to him about P.A.C.E. (the Brain Gym® 4 step process that we use to settle in). 

I’m sitting in front of a beautiful lake, eating my lunch between appointments and I’m thinking about beauty. There is such a wonderful amount of beauty in this world. In the sky, in the mountains, in the lakes and oceans, and rivers. 

I can't put groceries into the trunk of my car. When I go to the store, I have to pile all the bags into the back seat or on the floor.  Sometimes, if the "Big Green Ball" is on the backseat then I don't even have half of the seat space for groceries.  

I don't want to see my Brain Fit clients for forever.  That's right- I want there to be a "last day". I want my clients to get to a point where they are ready to stop seeing me, to stop participating in Brain Fit.

I climbed into the back seat of his mother's car the best I could.  He had just arrived home from school and it was time for our session, but this nine-year-old boy was in complete "freeze" mode and wouldn't come out of the car.

I have never been a fly on a wall when one parent has referred Brain Fit to another, but I imagine the conversation might start something like this...